For many parents, it’s hard to imagine the day when their children leave the family home to head out into the world and begin their own lives. Some people may be excited about this new chapter, while others have a hard time adjusting. While this transition can be bittersweet, many personal and financial opportunities can arise from an empty nest.
When the day comes that it’s just the parents left in the house, they may find themselves fluctuating between excitement and heartache as a new routine sets in. Fortunately, becoming empty nesters can free up more time to pursue hobbies and provide the ability to capitalize on financial opportunities that weren’t always possible with dependents in the home. As a budget opens up and spending slows down, the focus commonly shifts back to life as a couple. This is a perfect time to revisit a retirement plan, make any adjustments, and hopefully allocate more funds toward savings to ensure greater financial freedom for the future.
For those who have had children in the home for at least 18 years or longer, the focus was likely on the family's needs. Now, as an empty nester, it’s time to ask some key questions and prioritize finances in several ways that might not have been considered before.
Many couples sell their home to downsize to a smaller house or condo once their children leave the nest. This can often lower bills, lead to less upkeep, and potentially give some equity from the sale to pay off debt or put toward retirement. If moving is on your mind, there are important factors to consider before making this big decision. Do you currently own your home? How is the real estate market? Will your kids come home often to visit? For those who enjoy their home and neighborhood, it may make more sense to stay put. When thinking about downsizing, decide if it’s a step forward or backward and if it will help you achieve the lifestyle you envision for the future.
The average cost of raising a child to adulthood (before college) is nearly $240,000. While many would agree every penny is worth it when it comes to raising a family, other financial goals may take a backseat during a child’s younger years. Now that they’re adults, it may be time to look for new ways to revitalize a retirement plan and contribute more to your financial future. Perhaps that involves diversifying a portfolio or exploring higher risk/higher reward investments. For individuals looking to grow their retirement savings without downside market risk, then a fixed index annuity (FIA) may be a good option.1 This solution could also turn a nest egg into a guaranteed stream of income throughout retirement.
Like a retirement plan, this can be an ideal time to revisit an estate plan and make any necessary updates. As a couple ages, they may want to list their adult child as a financial executor or their medical power of attorney. If a will was created when the children were young that would put money in a trust, this may need to be updated now that they’re grown. It can also be a good time to review any life insurance coverage and who is listed as beneficiaries. Taking the time to review and update an estate plan now can allow the focus to remain on today, knowing personal wishes for tomorrow can be covered.
To make the most of this next stage of life, there are several important steps that can help polish up a financial plan:
Just because children leave home doesn’t always mean they stop relying on you financially. Perhaps parents are still paying for college or student loans or helping with other living expenses. This is a good time to establish a timeline for transitioning away from paying for a child’s needs and helping them become financially independent. By teaching children about budgeting and money management when they’re young, they are more likely to carry those positive habits into adulthood and rely less upon others for financial support when they’re grown. Since this may be the time for a couple to start maximizing their savings for the future, consider setting financial boundaries for adult children about borrowing money or returning home. Parents may also want to consider life insurance to help provide for their children’s financial future, as well as their own. Life insurance policies that feature cash value growth potential can create a legacy to leave to loved ones and also help supplement retirement income. Consider discussing your goals with a financial professional to find the right solution for you.
As parents become empty nesters, changing financial focus can welcome new and exciting opportunities. Just like with any facet of financial planning, the sooner you begin to think about the future and identify your key goals, the smoother it will be when the day arrives. Be sure to take time to celebrate the remarkable accomplishment of raising children and sending them out into the world, you did it! Then, turn the spotlight back to you and find the financial path that allows your dreams for the future to come true.
1 Fixed index annuities are not a direct investment in the stock market. They are long term insurance products with guarantees backed by the issuing company. They provide the potential for interest to be credited based in part on the performance of specific indices without the risk of loss of premium due to market downturns or fluctuation.
Although fixed index annuities guarantee no loss of premium due to market downturns, deductions from your accumulation value for additional optional benefit riders or strategy fees associated with allocations to enhanced crediting methods could exceed interest credited to the accumulation value, which would result in loss of premium. They may not be appropriate for all clients. Interest credits to a fixed index annuity will not mirror the actual performance of the relevant index.
The term financial professional is not intended to imply engagement in an advisory business in which compensation is not related to sales. Financial professionals that are insurance licensed will be paid a commission on the sale of an insurance product.
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